I am older than my husband by 6. Sign in Get started. The only times it got twitchy was when we'd go out to bars, and the guy would get carded, and the doorman's face would contort in confusion, trying to decide which would be less awkward: We still root for each other. Then of course there's the unnecessary stereotype that her being over 30 for five minutes means she is now turning at least some of her attention to baby-planning. Like most things, it's okay with some people and not okay with others. To engage with an older guy is to peek inside a different point-of-view on life.
Cut this shit out.
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She, on the other hand, never seemed to get over the age gap. That is the opposite of what picking a person should be like. It would be okay if the man was 26 and she was 21 but the other way around feels too milfy, or cougarish. Best of luck -- you're gonna need it. That age gap itself is fine.