However, it is a very good reason. I bet this person is from the Midwest or the South. Yes, any sex act should require trust, but anal might be doubly so. Many girls, like myself, actually love it and want it just as much as vaginal sex, if not more. If so, approximately how many have you experienced throughout your lifetime? Don't try to push she issue if she's really not into it. Then it hurt less and she says she likes it now.
I tried it again with another person and had to shut that down immediately as that level of trust or care was absent.
What Women Love And Hate About Anal Sex
Do you enjoy inflicting pain in the bedroom? She would have to think you're a fucking god to do that. When I was reading the comments to the blog I previously told you about, I found many reasons as to why they say no to anal sex. Personally, if I haven't had anal sex for a while, I'll pop in a medium size butt plug for an hour or so before taking the penis as it relaxes the sphincter and makes penetration much more pleasant," says Singer. With just a few drops, you'll be set — plus, it's condom- and non-silicone-toy-compatible.